Manifestation of an argument

We talk so much about gratitude and being positive, the goodness of it, the energy it generates, the benefit of it and much more. All the benefits are real when we are thankful, when we try to see the good in the bad, when we thank God for the challenges we have. The opposite is the same. I had just a small argument with my partner, it started out with a negative comment from the other person, of course the best thing for the future is that for the another guy was to just brush it off as it was just a comment. But it's hard when someone says negative thing about you. I guess that's when your positive muscle gets tested, to think positive anyway, or to shut your mouth and give the other person the benefit of the doubt for the reason he says what he said, and maybe take it as a lesson, yes that I need to be more kinder, or whatever he/she expects of me. Back to the negative result from our argument, it hindered us to communicate when we should regarding whether or not I should leave my car keys in the car. The result was that the keys were left inside the car, got locked in because my partner decided to come out from the car as well.

And the part of being of be able to open the car was incredible. As we stood there, I wasn't upset or freaked out or anything, but my reaction was a positive one, finding the solution to get the car door opened. Soon, a neighbour came along, he was just passing through us. He knew what to do to get the door opened. It clicked, the lock was opened as we followed his suggestion of what to do.
Here is what I want to share with you, when you argue or feeling negative about yourself or someone else, it will also be manifested in the physical, warning to us all to stay positive, and watch out for our reactions.